Reflections on women in Afghanistan

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Reflections on women in afghanistan

Afghanistan in early 2021 and Afghanistan in summer 2025 are not the same. Had the Taliban already been in power when we began planning the Oxus Expedition, we might not have pursued our idea of a female expedition from source to sea. But having already committed to it, we wanted to see it through. There are no doubt many well-meaning friends, family, and bystanders who think it was inappropriate to travel in Afghanistan when so many Afghan women are suffering under Taliban repression, that our presence would be used to white-washed Taliban abuse. We therefore wanted to share a few reflections, informed by the women we met and the experiences we had.

Education. Work. Freedom. These three words were carved in large letters in English and Dari into the outside wall of a family compound in the Wakhan. The women living here had their education stopped short; their brothers continue studying. Determined, they have found ways to keep learning, and to keep teaching, but theres an anger inside which is turning to sadness and despondency the longer that the Taliban keep girls out of high schools and universities. The world has looked away, leaving these women alone.

A small number of women are still working paid jobs in Afghanistan, but usually behind closed doors. In some cases, these are official jobs, like the woman at the border who physically examines female arrivals to ensure they dont have anything illicit hidden about their person. More often, women are working in the private sector, for example running a restaurant catering to families in Kunduz. These women are a small minatory, however: many more need and want to be working, to support their families and have financial independence.

If you google the Wakhan Corridor, youll see striking portraits of Kyrgyz women and girls in their traditional, vibrant red attire. Road building to the Little Pamir has enabled the Taliban to reach the Kyrgyz communities around Bozai Gumbaz and Chaqmaqtin, and theyve imported their extreme brand of Sunnism. Young Kyrgyz men have been sent to madrassas in Kunduz and returned radicalised; they now pressure their mothers and sisters to veil their faces or wear a burkha, even though its not compatible with the demands of herding livestock. Far fewer Kyrgyz women were visible outside than when I last visited them a decade ago, and most are no longer willing to have their photograph taken.

Foreign women in Afghanistan are treated as a third sex. It is not the only place in the world where this happens, but we acknowledge our privileged position. We were able to enter the womens quarters of homes, to sit and talk with women in their kitchens and courtyards, and to play with the children. At the same time, we could travel across the country with men who were neither our husbands nor blood relatives. We could wear our own clothes, be visible in public spaces, and continue largely unhindered with our work. We were allowed into the Blue Mosque complex in Mazar-i Sharif. These rights are not afforded to our Afghan sisters.

 

On our final afternoon in Afghanistan, we visited the tomb of Rabia Balkhi. It is beside the Green Mosque in the ancient city of Balkh, in what is perhaps the only park in Afghanistan where women are still allowed to sit, wander, and enjoy themselves. Rabia is a national heroine because she was the first woman to write poetry in Persian. This was in the 10th century. She was highly educated, independent, and passionate in her love life as well as her creative output. Some say that Rabia is a proto-feminist; but however we define her, 1,000 years after her death, we are still reading her poetry and women in Afghanistan and beyond its borders still find inspiration and hope in her story.

 

With financial support from Maximum Exposure, we will be helping some women we met during the Oxus Expedition access educational opportunities online and in universities outside Afghanistan. This includes using our network to arrange admissions, visas, and scholarships. The details of this will remain confidential to protect the individuals involved and their families, but if you would like to help, please get in touch.

Mission accomplished

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Mission accomplished

The Soviet military maps and the satellite image layer of Google Maps contradict each other. In the
former, Chelab Sub-Valley D looks significantly longer than A-C, but the less-detailed Google is less conclusive. The
only way to resolve this was to ride out and measure the relative distances to physically verifiable sources. 

We took on Valley A on 25 August, 2025; the following day, it was time for Valley D. 

Kamila, Ahmad, and Salahuddin with the horses on the valley floor
The waterfall in the rock wall
Source stream flowing through the glacier and into the lake
Sophie and Sahaluddin on the glacier

Valley D was northeast of our camp, only partially in view as the river bends almost 90 degrees, disappearing from view behind a peak. The stream weaves its way back and forth across the valley floor in a criss-cross of small waterways, and whatever the time of day, it looks silver and majestic. We rode comfortably for the first few hours, cautiously optimistic that today would be a day of revelation, even though we were unsure exactly what the source we were looking for might look like.

One clue that the source could well be in Valley D was a 2016 report from Christine Fischer and Kristina Kunze, identifying a snow field towards the end of the valley, close to the ridge that is the Afghan-Tajik border.  A decade on, though, that glacier or snowfield was gone. The dark mark of the stream bed through which it must have flowed was visible on the valley floor, but it was dry. Now, the water came from a more southerly direction. 

We spotted a small waterfall on the right hand side of the valley. It sprung from a reddish rock wall, not too high but blocking visibility of what was behind it. We rode closer to take a look. Kamila and Ahmad stayed with the horse in what in any circumstances would be an idyllic picnic spot. Salahuddin and I pressed on, noncommittal about how long we might be. 

In spite of the initial rock climb, the terrain in D was more accessible than in A. For a start, it was less steep and claustrophobic, and whenever we surmounted a ridge or rock wall, we could see the next section of river, so didn’t venture so far off course. The rocks underfoot were more stable, too.

As with the glaciers in Valley A, there was a small pool at the foot of this glacier, but in this case it was fed by a roaring glacial stream lined with bubble-shaped icicles. More confident now hiking on ice, and with many more hours of daylight ahead, Salahuddin and I crunched our way up the glacier, following the path of the stream but keeping far enough back to avoid slipping into its metre-deep flume. 

Where is the source of the Oxus? We now had the coordinates and altitude data to compare Chelab Source D against other previously recorded sites in Chelab Valley A and other parts of the Wakhan. This new location, in the middle of what we’ve now called the Ibbotson-Esmaeli Glacier, at the point where sufficient ice is melting to become a stream with a constant flow, the altitude was 5,008m above sea level, higher than the sources in Valley A but lower than sites elsewhere. Measured by the path of the river, though, this location was further from the A/D confluence, and hence also further from the sea than other potential sources, qualifying it to be the source of both the Chelab and the Oxus, when defined by distance. Confident, elated, and very, very sunburnt, we took photographs and made our way down.

Full information about the discovery of this source, including supporting data and analysis, will be published soon in the peer-reviewed journal Asian Affairs.

The source that wasn’t

Stream gauging in the Chelab

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Stream gauging in the Chelab Valley

The Chelab Valley runs from the Nikolai Range on the northern side of the Wakhan Corridor into the plain on the western side of Chaqmaqtin. It is important because its main stream bifurcates at the mouth of the valley, principally flowing into the lake but with a small amount of water also feeding the Little Pamir.

The most commonly used definitions of a rivers source are the stream which begins furthest from the sea; and the stream which begins at highest altitude. A third definition refers to the volume of water that the stream contributes to the river system, and so in the Chelab we wanted to examine the four sub-streams (A-D) which come together, and to establish which of those was the principle.

There are plenty of ways to calculate the volume of water in a stream, but we needed something which was simple to use, affordable, reliable, and wouldnt cause consternation amongst customs officials or anyone else searching our baggage. In summer 2024 wed trialled the trans velocity head rod (TVHR) in the UK and found it worked well in test conditions. But a quiet chalk stream running through Wilton is not the same thing as a glacial mountain stream. How would it fare? Were delighted to say, it worked well.

Glacial streams vary significantly in volume over the course of a day, as the warmth of the sun melts the ice, increasing the water flow. For this reason, we needed to undertake the stream gauging at approximately the same time for each river, conducting the work over several days to allow for the time required to walk or ride between the measuring sites. Working earlier in the day, when the water volume was lower, would also be safer, so we took all the measurements between 09.00 and 10.30.

To start the process, we stretched a tape measure across each stream, from the left bank to the right. Sophie was in the water, wearing waders; and Mahmud Omar gamely kept the other end of the measuring tape in place. This gave us this width of the stream and meant we could easily see where each vertical measurement point 20 cm apart would be.

The TVHR is essentially a metre-long ruler made of perspex. You place it in the water vertically, side on to the flow, and raise the end of the clear gauge to the waters surface to read the depth in centimetres. Then, you rotate the rod 90 degrees so the force of the water pushes against its flat side: there is a clear difference now between the water level on the upstream and downstream side of the rod. You slide the red gauge up to match the upstream water level, and then read off the velocity head in millimetres. Our guide, Salahuddin Esmaeli, recorded the data in a table, and we repeated the process again and again across each streams width, collecting all the information required to calculate the cross-section of the stream and the volume of water flowing through it.

TVHRs inventors, INRAE, provide a spreadsheet for the calculations. Without electricity in the Chelab Valley and not wanting to risk a laptop in the harsh environment, we inputted the data later. These are the results for the four streams

A = 0.535 cumecs (535 litres/sec)

B = 0.136 cumecs (136 litres/sec)

C = 0.114 cumecs (114 litres/sec)

D = 0.490 cumecs (490 litres/sec)

Individually, A is the largest of the four streams which together comprise the Chelab. However, the other three streams have already merged upstream, so the confluence is not of A and D, but of A and the by now larger B-D stream, as the latter already holds the total volume of three streams’ flow within its course. As the mainstem of a river is the larger (by volume) of the two tributaries joining at a confluence, the mainstem of the Chelab is as follows:

A / B-D confluence: mainstem = B-D

B / C-D confluence: mainstem = C-D

C / D confluence: mainstem = D.

Jack Wolfskin x Oxus Expedition

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Jack Wolfskin x Oxus Expedition

We first contacted Jack Wolfskin’s marketing team when the idea for the Oxus Expedition was in its infancy. Little did they (or we) know that it would take four and a half years — not the anticipated six months — to complete the expedition and have results, photos, and videos to show for it. Their generosity and patience are very much appreciated. 

We first contacted Jack Wolfskin’s marketing team when the idea for the Oxus Expedition was in its infancy. Little did they (or we) know that it would take four and a half years — not the anticipated six months — to complete the expedition and have results, photos, and videos to show for it. Their generosity and patience are very much appreciated. 

Proper expedition clothing and equipment is expensive. If you cut corners on price and quality, you risk being dangerously ill equipped, so having a sponsor who both advises what you might need and provides it is invaluable. 

In the Wakhan Corridor, the greatest challenge from a clothing and equipment perspective is the range of temperatures: in August, we had scorching hot days and sub-zero nights, where ice formed on the fly sheets of the tents. Being able to add on and remove multiple layers is essential, as is having equipment with good thermal properties and which will also keep out the wind. 

Sophie’s favourite item: The item I wore most is my Pacific Green JWP t-shirt with 3/4 length sleeves. It’s an ideal base layer earlier in the morning, with a fleece and jacket on top; but once the days warmed up, I could strip everything else off and still have enough protection (at least on my body and arms!) from the intense sun. The cut, neckline, and sleeve length was also modest enough that I didn’t worry about disapproving looks. The fabric is light, doesn’t crease, and doesn’t really to show the dirt or sweat, so this short was my go-to, day in, day out. 

Kamila’s favourite item: Our tent! It was my first time camping and I was afraid of how uncomfortable and unsafe it will be, but on the contrary! Incredibly warm, safe, nearly sound proof and cozy. The views from our tent were incredible, I loved waking up early in the morning to the sun or at night to see the stars, yet the tent would keep its warmth. 

Our route in Afghanistan

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Our route in Afghanistan

When we first planned the Oxus Expedition in 2020/21, we expected to enter Afghanistan at Ishkashim, the border town split between Tajikistan and Afghanistan, which is the gateway to the Wakhan Corridor. This is where I [Sophie] had crossed the border on three previous trips, and although the bridge / border was closed due to COVID restrictions, I expected that to be a temporary situation and one which could be resolved, if need be, with special permission from Dushanbe

Posing at the Qosh Tepa Canal after crossing the border
First camping night at Lake Chaqmaqtin
Our guide, Salahuddin with Mahmud Omar and Ahmad
A view from our car en route to Wakhan Corridor

Five years on, COVID is little more than a memory but the Ishkashim border hasn’t reopened, a sign of the uneasy diplomatic relationship between the two countries. You can cross further west at Sher Khan Bandar, but for us it was more convenient to go straight from Uzbekistan to Afghanistan, saving the need for yet another Tajik visa.  

Road travel within Afghanistan is much easier and safer than it was under the previous Afghan government. The Taliban proudly advertise the improved security situation, even though one major reason for it is that they themselves are no longer planting roadside bombs or kidnapping foreigners for ransom. We could therefore drive — without a convoy or armed escort — from the Hairatan border crossing to Mazar-i Sharif, then via Kunduz to Faizabad and Ishkashim. That part of the journey, on reasonable roads, would take two days.

Once in the Wakhan Corridor, we continued east, still by car but at a much slower pace. The roads in the valley, though extended and improved in recent years, are still little more than dirt tracks, with frequent river crossings and other obstacles. As the altitude increases significantly, it is also necessary to acclimatise, so we stopped a night in the guesthouses in Qala-e Panja and in Sarhad-e Broghil. The new road from Sarhad to Bozai Gumbaz is hair raising, and although I had full trust in our driver, Abdurahmon, I could not say the same for the car, which rattled, squeaked, and generally complained, especially on precarious downhill stretches when the brakes were applied. 

In the Little Pamir, overlooking Lake Chaqmaqtin, I finally felt that the Oxus Expedition might actually conclude this year. The late, turquoise and idyllic, with peaks and glaciers either side, has often been described as the source of the Oxus, though that was one thing we were out to disprove. 

There is now a road along the northern shore of Chaqmaqtin to Tajikistan, and another through the Wakhjir Valley to China, though the latter hasn’t yet opened the border crossing. Where we were going — the Chelab Valley — there was still no road, so we left the 4×4 in the Kyrgyz winter settlement at the valley’s mouth and transferred our baggage to two horses and a donkey. Mahmud Omar and Ahmad, two young Kyrgyz men, joined us for the next four days to care for them. Bags packed, we set off on foot to establish a base camp half way along the valley, around four hours’ walk from the vehicle.

Third time lucky?

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Third time lucky?

In 2021, the Oxus Expedition was postponed because of the collapse of the Afghan government and the Taliban’s return to power. In 2024, security had improved and the expedition’s prospects looked promising, but just days before we were due to arrive in Afghanistan, the Taliban banned foreigners from entering the Wakhan Corridor. It was therefore with a weary caution that in spring 2025 we once again began planning a trip — by this stage the last remaining part of the expedition route. We booked flights, we made our ground arrangements with the very patient Azim Ziyahee from Wakhan Adventure, we updated our travel insurance, and we trained. 

 

By August 2025, it was possible to cross the Friendship Bridge in Termez, Uzbekistan, and enter Afghanistan near Mazar-i Sharif. For a variety of reasons, this was a more attractive option than transiting through Tajikistan, as we had planned in previous years. We arrived in Termez on a hot Thursday afternoon on the flight from Tashkent and checked into the gorgeous Comfortable Homestay, planning to get our visas the following morning.

Afghanistan’s consulate in Termez is on the lower floor of a new residential building. The red, black, and green flag of Afghanistan hangs on roadside of the building, but in the courtyard the white Taliban flag is flying. It was a reminder of the diplomatic complexities of engaging with a state whose government is not formally recognised. 

The challenge? The consulate was shut. The website said it was open, and a tourist we met at the homestay had successfully applied for her visa the day before. We googled “public holidays in Afghanistan” but nothing showed up. The security guard was adamant, however: no one is here; come back on Monday. Friday 15 August was, we would subsequently learn, Victory Day, the fourth anniversary of the Taliban’s return to power. 

Our plans were upended, though not irreparably. Our arrival in Afghanistan would be delayed (yet again), but this time only for a few days. We would enter, bureaucracy permitting, on Monday evening instead of Saturday. In the meantime, there was nothing for it but sightseeing in Termez and drinking a few last-minute beers in the garden at Diplomat restaurant. 

Meet Kamila

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Meet kamila

Assalomu alaykum!

My name is Kamila and, to be completely honest, I had no interest in travelling to Afghanistan at first—not until about four years ago. It all began with my discovery of lapis lazuli: its history, its connection to the British monarchy, and the regions from which it originates. The much-admired royal blue of the British Crown, in fact, was possibly derived from the deep hue of lapis lazuli.

As I started gathering information, I found myself increasingly drawn to Badakhshan and the Pamirs, and gradually began learning about the Wakhan Corridor. The rich history of the region resonated with me on a personal level, linking back to my own roots in neighbouring Uzbekistan. Take Balkh, for example—often regarded as the twin city of Samarkand. Even Kabuli Palau rivals Uzbek plov (yes, I dare say it might even be better!).

And the people? Among the warmest I have ever encountered, even here in London. The blend of cultures, ethnicities, and languages feels so close to home. I hope to learn more about the communities of the Wakhan Corridor, for my greatest curiosity always lies with people—their stories, their resilience, and their everyday lives.

Though I am new to camping, I am no stranger to hiking mountains, valleys, and steep hills. After all, I am a daughter of the Fergana Valley, and I cannot wait to witness with my own eyes the beauty I have so often read about in my searches.

The bath of a lifetime

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The bath of a lifetime

The Aral Sea has disappeared. The Aral Sea is terribly polluted. The Aral Sea is extremely salted, so much so that no fish can live in it. I have heard these things said so often that it never occurred to me to go for a swim. But there on the waterfront, just below the Aral Sea Yurt Camp, is a changing hut and a jetty. No, it’s not Bognor or Bournemouth, but I’m no Victorian lady.

I knew this was a once in a lifetime opportunity to go swimming in the Aral Sea.

I didn’t bring a swimsuit with me to Karakalpakstan. Of course I didn’t. I rummaged through my bag: a t-shirt and one of my more respectable pairs of knickers would have to do.

Thankfully, the yurt camp also lent me a decent size towel.

It was 8 o’clock in the morning on Saturday 14 June. The sun had already been up for a couple of hours, and as it was almost midsummer, there had been weeks of hot weather. Investigating, I dipped in a toe. The shallow water wasn’t quite bath temperature, but almost. There would be no gasping or shrieking as I descended the ladder.

My feet sunk into a sticky, slimy mud. That was the least pleasant part of the experience.

Undeterred, I lent back and began to float, the saline water effortlessly supporting my weight.

I swam on my back, I doggy paddled on my front, and I shrieked with a childlike joy.

Journey’s end? A road trip to the Aral Sea

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Journey’s end? A road trip to the Aral Sea

After months in limbo due to work commitments and the seasons, the Oxus Expedition has resumed. Last summer and early autumn, we travelled along almost every part of the Oxus, from Tajikistan, across Uzbekistan and Turkmenistan, and into Karakalpakstan. Only two sections remained, the Wakhan Corridor in Afghanistan and the Aral Sea, which coincidentally are the very start and end of the river.

In mid June 2025, I took a car and driver and headed north from Karakalpakstan’s capital, the Soviet-era city of Nukus. The journey was unusually quiet: unlike earlier in the expedition when we chatted, laughed, and listened to vintage pop music, Miskola and Sophia weren’t with me. One of the risks of a long, much-delayed expedition is that people’s commitments change. Life happens, and however much you want to be out in the world adventuring, family and work take precedence. I was therefore going to the Aral Sea missing two-thirds of our trio.

Nukus is the hub of Karakalpakstan’s wheel, and the further you travel along a spoke, the poorer the road surface becomes. I’m told that the road to the former Aral City port city of Muynak will be upgraded this year, but on this scorching summer day we bounced along over the potholes, opening the windows for a breeze only when the dust would allow.

The Oxus gives up the ghost not far north of Nukus, reduced to a dribble and, then, nothing at all.

In its absence, and spreading across what until all too recently was the sea bed, is the Aralkum, the world’s newest desert, which grows more and more each day.

Muynak has, understandably, an air of desperation. The fishing industry which supported this once thriving town has gone and won’t come back. Boats lie rusting on the sand beneath the lighthouse, dust and sand blow through, and much of the working age population has left to find jobs elsewhere. Respiratory diseases and cancers are higher than they should be. Aid and investment programmes come and go, but the long term direction is decline.

In spite of this, there are pockets of positivity in Muynak. The annual Stihia Festival — an eclectic, unexpectedly appealing combination of electric music and eco activism in an apocalyptic landscape — has sparked an interest in tourism and various projects related to the creative economy. The local museum has been promised an impressive new building with virtual reality exhibitions telling the story of the ill-fated sea. And a number of families have opened guesthouses and homestays, offering warm hospitality with the trickle of tourists passing through.

I stopped for lunch with one of these families, whose dining table was weighted down with stuffed dumplings and deep fried pastry snacks. The freshness of the tomato and cucumber salad was a welcome contrast and a reminder that although hydroponic farming has its place, nothing beats the taste of vegetables grown in the soil and drenched with sun. I wasn’t the only visitor: two Swiss tourists and their Karakalpak guide, Mansur, joined me, and we chatted about water issues and the town.

You will start to understand how critical Karakalpakstan’s water issues have become when I tell you it now takes a good four hours to drive from Muynak to the sea shore. The statistic often bandied around is that the Aral Sea has shrunk to 10% of its original size since the 1960s, but that hits home hard when you drive on and on through the flat, sandy landscape which should be at the bottom of the sea. There’s not much to look at on this stretch of the journey save an occasional installation drilling gas from deep underground, and the thousands of thorny saxual bushes which have been planted in a moderately successful bid to green the desert and reduce dust storms.

Long before reaching then, I saw the cliffs which drop from the edge the Ustyurt Plateau. Water should lap at their base, but for the most part there’s now just jagged rocks, including the dramatic geological formations known as the Aral Canyons. Birds of prey nest in the cliffs and circle above them on the thermals, diving every now and then to snack on some poor, unfortunate rodent.Here, there’s no meaningful road, just dirt tracks through the desert. I was glad to be in a 4×4, because in temperatures of nearly 40 Celsius I didn’t fancy having to stop and dig the car out from the sand. Eventually, we climbed the cliff onto the plateau and looked back. For the first time, I was struck fully by the scale of the empty seabed and what has been lost.

I was subdued but we carried on. I made photo stops at the canyons and we took a short detour away from the cliff edge to see a nomadic cemetery. No one lives in this area now, but a few generations ago the semi-nomadic Karakalpaks fished in the sea and hunted birds and mammals in the surrounding marshes. Some of the headstones had inscriptions in a Perso-Arabic script, a reminder that the local culture as well as ecology have changed. The Aral Sea comes into view without drama. At first, it’s a faint shimmer on the horizon, and in the late afternoon light it’s not all that clear where the water becomes the sky. But it is there, sparkling, against all the odds. And it is a sight beautiful, almost spiritual, to behold.